boundaries for beginners

a boundary is an act of self-compassion. a boundary is when a self-loving individual draws an emotional line in the sand that guards their capacity to: trust themselves hear their truth/intuition love themselves take care of themselves heal themselves and honor exactly how they feel and not how their ‘supposed’ to feel in order to please other people and not have to deal with their baggage. many people don’t even know what the fuck a…
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i’ve been. broken open.

play this softly while you read my blog, for its full effect. religion isn’t my thing anymore, i can only do relationship. theology isn’t my thing anymore, i can only do experience. it wasn’t a conscious decision i made, but the foundation of my religion inevitably crumbled because its foundation was faulty and i had no choice but to walk towards what my soul was craving; something authentic, raw, messy and real. when i walked…
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forgiveness and love:

forgiveness is my ability to realize that we are all equals and that i have committed the same misguided choices– mistakes, as others have. if i am unable to see myself in the flaws of someone else, it is my own suffering that is blocking my vision. when i forgive, i say: “have i made that mistake before?” “yes” “and am i still a good person?” “yes” when it is hard for me to envision…
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